(replying to your last post via ask box because what i wanted to say was too long) those are very interesting points, actually! especially the last one, which is very true for me. my mother and father broke up before my mother even knew she was pregnant with me, and didn't tell him until i was two years old and asking about my father. it makes me wonder, if he had decided he didn't want to claim me, what would have happened? which he could have done, he was getting married at the time.

Thank you for sharing! I sort of know where youre coming from, my parents divorced when I was little and both of them claimed me, but my dad won. Lots of times I think about what would have happened if he didnt